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To start all over again...

Sun, 28 Jun 2009 14:47:42 GMT

"For what it’s worth, it’s never too late, or in my case too early, to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit… start whenever you want… you can change or stay the same. There are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. I hope you see things that stop you. I hope you feel things that you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life that you’re proud of and if you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again."

- Benjamin Button

if you are the one...

Wed, 13 May 2009 14:57:57 GMT

笑笑：你喜歡我什麼？

秦奮：我說過喜歡你嗎？

笑笑：要誠實，這是我們今後在一起的前提。

秦奮：我願意娶你的前提就是找不到比你還傻的人。

笑笑：我以後不會再那麼傻了。

秦奮：你啊，想三心二意還沒那本事，逢場作戲你都不會，全寫在臉上了。我把話放這兒，他這一頁你是還沒有翻過去，一旦翻到新的這一頁，你照樣會一心一意。我就是看准了這一條才容忍你現在的表現。你傻，我可不傻。

秦奮：我就是因為你長得好看想跟你玩玩，你接受嗎？你玩得起嗎？三心二意貌合神離你是我對手嗎？你信不信，我心裏裝著八個女的你也看不出來。我有什麼落不落空的？你不拿我當回事兒，我就把你當送上門來的一便宜給占了唄。

An extract from 非誠勿擾。

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Sat, 21 Feb 2009 17:52:23 GMT

Please tell me if I should believe in love again, please.
I have been trying to remind myself all the time but I just feel that love is so over-rated. Please tell me.

Saturday, February 07, 2009

Sat, 07 Feb 2009 16:50:19 GMT

沒關係，因為怎樣再也沒關係了。

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Tue, 27 Jan 2009 10:58:47 GMT

大家好嗎？我留了指甲 (是為了狠心要戒掉咬指甲習慣而做的決定)，MAC 機的廣東話輸入法又很難用，所以又增加了我不來這裡打中文的藉口。不過今天大年初二，我昨天拍了一些外婆的照片，所以想放在這裡讓人認識我可愛的婆婆。

其實農曆新年對我們家來說意義不算太大，我們一家人每星期見面，要團年不需要特別的日子。再說，我很討厭一年見不到一次的所謂親戚，既然不是那麼熟，不見得每年象徵式的拜個年、送個禮能增進甚麼感情。是不是人越大了越討厭繁文縟節，被老長輩聽到一定會罵我大逆不道，不懂得傳統的美德。或許當下節日的功能，也是提醒一下我們，為忙碌的港人找個對家人好的藉口。

昨天過年我拍下了外婆在家裡的生活照。雖然是大年初一，外婆還不是一樣在廚房為我們煮開年飯。八十多歲了，請了傭人多年也從來不用她幫忙, 老而彌堅就是這樣。願望來年她會健健康康，常常見到她在廚房洗洗切切的情景。

Sunday, September 07, 2008

Sun, 07 Sep 2008 16:30:20 GMT

It started out as a feeling / Which then grew into a hope
Which then turned into a quiet thought / Which then turned into a quiet word
And then that word grew louder and louder / Til it was a battle cry

I'll come back / When you call me
No need to say goodbye

Just because everything's changing
Doesn't mean it's never /Been this way before
All you can do is try to know / Who your friends are as you head off to the war
Pick a star on the dark horizon / And follow the light

You'll come back / When it's over
No need to say good bye..

Now we're back to the beginning / It's just a feeling and no one knows yet
But just because they can't feel it too / Doesn't mean that you have to forget
Let your memories grow stronger and stronger / Til they're before your eyes

純真很可貴，所以想一直好好保護。

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Sun, 24 Aug 2008 03:41:42 GMT

誰讓愛變沉重誰忘了給你溫柔
誰懂我多麼不捨得...

Friday, August 22, 2008

Fri, 22 Aug 2008 06:30:52 GMT

The of my life, no one can replace.

Friday, August 22, 2008

Fri, 22 Aug 2008 03:05:11 GMT

Re-posting something I have read some time ago, yet seems like I still haven't learnt anything since then ...
well yea I am still struggling with the "Quarter-life Crisis", who isn't??

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"They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now. You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job... and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself... and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender! What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out."

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Wed, 20 Aug 2008 16:55:09 GMT

最軟弱無力莫過於此。有那麼多說話想說，唯有走一段路，流一點眼淚，就當已經開了口。從今開始，又再自言自語。